How Little Bibu Learned Responsibility Through Love
Pallapuram Prabakaran
Sunday
is often called a day of rest. But for him, it was no different.
Most
of his time was spent helping his parents — not with big chores, but with the
little things a child could manage: filling a water pot, holding the basket,
fetching a cloth, wiping the dust off the window.
After
all, Bibu was only six years old. But his thoughts and actions were far wiser
than his age.
At
home, a large basket stood on a high shelf — filled with toys. New one. Old
ones. Even the broken favorites buried at the bottom. But what use were they if
he couldn’t reach them?
Even
when he climbed onto a chair — or even the table — his tiny hands couldn’t
touch it. He would stretch, wobble, and try… but it was always just beyond
reach.
So
he’d call out to his father.
“Papa!
Can you please bring the basket down?”
His
father would sigh and mutter,
“I
just cleaned the house! If I take them down now, everything will become a mess
again!”
Bibu
would look up at the basket, his small eyes filled with longing.
Usually, he would call his mother next.
Mothers
are always different.
Bibu’s
mother was truly special. No matter how many times he called, she would bring
the toy basket down — without a second thought.
Later, she would gently gather the scattered toys and put them back in place. For her, tidying up after him had become a daily ritual. Not once or twice — every single day.
Yet she never raised her voice.
Never
scolded.
Never
sighed in frustration.
Her
patience was as soft and steady as her smile.
Bibu
would leave toys everywhere — the whole room sometimes buried under them. Then
he’d ask for plates, vessels, or something else. Before long, he’d lose interest
and run outside to play with his sibling.
He
repeated this day after day, month after month.
But
one thing slowly changed.
Bibu
began to notice.
He
saw his mother’s quiet labour.
Her burden.
Her
love — woven into every small act of care.
One
day, a thought struck him — a gentle awakening.
“If
I can play with these toys, why can’t I also put them back?
What
if I make cleaning up a game too?”
From
that day onwards, he began tidying up after himself. Not just on Sundays —
every day. Whether he played, studied, ate, or slept, he made sure everything
he used returned to its place. Sometimes he forgot — but moments later, he’d
remember and run back to correct it.
His
father, impressed by this small but meaningful change, began to change too.
Now, when Bibu asked for his toys, his father handed them down gladly.
And
in return, Bibu began helping his father with little cleaning tasks.
From
then on, Bibu played, laughed, and lived a little differently.
Not because someone told him to but because he had learned something precious:
Responsibility
is also an act of love.










